• Living Vertically,  The Mystery of Marriage

    It Could Only Be God

    Today I honor my husband. One year ago today his decision changed everything. As magnificent head of our home and pillar of strength, he pulled in. He allowed it to happen.  He allowed God to invade deeper truths. We took time.  Weeks and weeks of study and prayer and growth. Sometimes painful and always holy.

  • Our Kids, Our Family,  The Mystery of Marriage

    Power Tools

    Something like six months ago I had a BUNIONECTOMY. It’s hard to decide which word is more ugly: bunion,  or its –ectomy. The kind and slightly-too-young surgeon used standard issue hardware to hold my metatarsal in its new place; redesigned to be straighter and more natural. Neat.  Power tools. (This makes my husband very happy and of the mind that…

  • Living Vertically,  Serving, Leading,  The Mystery of Marriage,  The Story

    Living Vertically

    Every day we get another chance to adjust our settings; turn the dials of our vision, our focus, our intention, our daily starting point. When we are overly focused (read: obsessed) on the person-to-person interactions, we are choosing to live horizontally. This often results in serious side-effects: frustrations, worries, expectations and, on good days certainly, even delightful joy and thrilling…

  • Living Vertically,  Our Kids, Our Family,  The Mystery of Marriage

    Camping Out

    PLANS WELL MADE It’s somewhere between 4 and 5am and we’re camping.  Actually we’re staging ourselves for an early arrival to the Wheatland Music festival that starts tomorrow and we’re on Take #9 of trying to beat the morning queue.  We rented the same reliable 35’  trailer we’ve used for a few years (which we now consider ours) and we…

  • Our Kids, Our Family,  The Mystery of Marriage

    Being Present

    She moved the pillow to the center of the bed:  submission to the truth.  He is with Jesus and her life is changed.  How can she be happy that he’s gone?  How can we celebrate the joy of heaven when we have such guttural pain in our body?  It’s the most ultimate choice that we must work through in our…